"Oh, I don't care what people think about me. I like to stand out. I'm different."
No, you're not different. And yes, you do care what people think.
We don't like to admit it, but we are a tribal species. In fact, a large indicator of happiness is feeling connected and having meaningful relationships. If we look at someone who is depressed and look at their lack of involvement in the tribe, we usually find that they are disconnected.
The thing is, we don't get what we need through social media.
Where's your tribe? How do we make one?